The willingness to experience anything, anything, is both the key to total healing and to liberation in a reincarnation paradigm like Hinduism.
Resisted experiences create permanent solidities made of two opposite forces in standoff: the energy trapped in the experience and the energy of pushing away or running away. These static energy patterns eventually evolve into symptoms, illnesses, “bad luck,” recurring unwanted situations, habits and other fixed limitations.
From a reincarnation perspective, they are what forces us to come back, they are the unfinished business that keeps us running in place like a hamster on his wheel. The standoff may very well continue for lifetimes.
Most of us have been around for a long time and we carry recordings of very heavy, overwhelming experiences, both as victims and perpetrators. The ones that we have labeled “ Must Never Be Felt” are the ones that own us.